Sorry For making you wait
1. Didn't drive on any pavement while in 4wd
2. Tried in P, N, D, Slowly rolling, Turned on and off still nothing but after sitting the night it did work besides the loud clunk when disengaged
3. No lights at all
4. I even got out of the car and couldn't hear the motor noise
5. 85,000 est.
6. No but my mom previously drove the car didn't know how to put it in 4wd so it was never used until 25k miles ago
7. No
8. I know the two distinct noises it should make i use A4wd whenever off road and 4hi fairly often
Thanks for all the help