JamesDowning wrote:Caleb, have you ever seen the movie Gran Torino? (if you haven't, do so!) I hate to make comparisons, but you're a lot like Toad. I'm sure you're a bright guy, but you need some direction. You need to get your hands dirty. You need to get in trouble, then learn from it. Learn how stuff works. Take apart your mother's hairdryer and put it back together.
Does your dad not own tools? One piece of advice I was given a long time ago. If there's a tool you need... buy it. You will probably need it again. A basic tool set is an ESSENTIAL part of any man's possessions.
If I were your dad, I'd take this upon myself to create a good father son bonding exercise from this. Buy a few tools, buy the lift, read over the install manual, read over some threads here online, then go start taking stuff apart. Maybe you both will learn something. If you get stuck, it's a $60 tow down to the local mechanic's shop - at least you tried.
Havn't seen it but deffinitly will! Compare me to whovere right now I don't really care all I want to do is learn, and If I leard through a comparison I will. I have taken apart countless toys, along with some other stuff and put together tons of stuff. The toys there were no directions on how to take it apart or put it back together.
My father owns tools, a 49Peice Craftsmen Mechanic set, <30 screwdrivers, a few pliers, few hammers, a rubber mallet and a Drill with the bits and such. Thats it. Thats what my uncle allways got on me about tools you cam never have enough. Tools like guns are a Mans Pride and Joy(my opinion).
I wish you were my dad is that aera. He would rather pay the local shop to do everything. I CAN'T afford it, I have colleage to think about!!! I have the lift, i've read the directions through and through and I think I understand it. Its just I ain't gunna mess with a spring compressor. My mom could care less what I do, she is like if you mess something up you have to pay. My dad would rather have me take it in though.
plaen wrote:That's really about it, go grab some sockets, a ratchet handle, and go to town, the only thing you may need to invest in is a good spring compressor, but those can be rented. My tb is the first one I've ever lifted and I've learned quite a bit from it, just take your time, and follow directions and it'll be lifted in a Saturday afternoon. And then your dad and you can take a step back and say, Damn that looks good, and take pride in what you've done, and saved a few hundred in labor, and take 20 bucks of that an offer a 6 pack of beer, if your dad enjoys a few, doesn't hurt to bribe him a little also, lol.
If you haven't done things like oil changes, or regular maintenance on the truck, you could start there. My 2 cents is, your parents seem to have the ideal that cars are this mysterious object that takes a special kind of knowledge to understand them, they really aren't, heck, half of the tb can be stripped down with a 10, 15, and 18 mm sockets. The only time you'd need anything special is when you get into clearances and tolerances in an engine/trans/diff builds. It'll be a very good learning opportunity to lift it, start with the rear and see how comfortable you and your dad are with wrenching, since its probably the easiest, if you aren't, stop and take it to the mechanic.
I agree wholeheartedly. My dad wont help. He has a bad back and he if lying on the ground he might mess his back up. I think thats his worry but He thinks we will need a Impact Wrench and more tools like it. Maybe he is disguising his back issue with the tools issue. Some penatrating lube, and Man Power will get the job done. If not just go and rent the tool.
Never have done an oil change. Local shop wants 20 a oil change my dad says just pay the 20 its not like your breaking the bank, I agree just during the winter months. I have taken off the inner wheel wells, front bumper, and made a CAI, I LOVED doing that stuff.
Yesterday when I got home from work sat down to eat dinner. My dad asked me if I was going to take the TB into the shop today. I said no I'm going to wait. As all good parents do he asked why. So I said with going up its more stress and BJ, TR, Wheel bearings, and End Links and if they hav't been replaced in the vehicles lifetime they need to before I lift. Oh ok did you ask and see how much they want to do it??? I said no. He brought up the one shop for the TR. I can't remember after that.
He dons't see how buying tools and still buying the parts off the internet is getting me ahead. Umm I'm learning.. I said I can get tools, jack stands, he interupts Well you need a vehicle lift, Thats how far he went. I don't think he knows where the parts(BJ, TR, Wheel bearings, and End Links)are located. Jack Stands will be plenty high enough to replace those parts. He said something to me and I responded Or if I LEARN how to do it. I proceeded to explain that the End links are just a matter of unbolting the old and bolting in with the new.
I was doing somethinking last night about what he said and such.
What if something goes wrong? I can't get this back in, I can't this or that? I don't have anyone that can show me.