From now on, use proper punctuation and capitalization please. It will GREATLY help our comprehension of your problem.
hardisky2 wrote:the front bolts to the assembly but it is a b</ch to install and pitches the front ball joints pretty hard any ideas
I took this portion of your post to be the actual issue... and I assume you mean the front [lift] bolts to the strut assembly, but cannot be installed.
Is your lift an outside-the-assembly lift? If so, return it.
A proper lift for these vehicles cannot be outside only. It must be a combination of inside and outside the top plate spacers (or it can replace the top plate entirely).
Pictures would really help us out.