Talked with our lovely Site supported BDS rep.
Turns out, the shocks i recieved are in fact the proper valving, however for what ever reasr have the wrong size body. Turnes out, i have a longer sized body, but with the same valving for our vehicles. He has no clue how this happened either, i have some type of lemon (nothing on my truck is normal anyways, so these work great)
The main difference between the 95s and 55s is not just the body. Both sets have the same valving, however the 95s are built for more abuse. The 55s are more than adequate, however since i do often tow with my truck as well as hit the trails right after towing, my shocks get worked pretty good. This is why i chose the 95s over the 55s. Although, my shiney brushed aluminum clear coated finish looks pretty cool